47 A Parent's Story: "On the Loving End of Crazy"

(Trigger warning: suicide)https://302.buzz/PM-WhatAreYourThoughtsIn this episode, Faith McDonald, a writer and an assistant professor at Penn State University, shares her experience helping her son who struggles with mental illness. His struggle is a familiar one to many parents and clinicians as they are prevalent among children and young adults, and the journey to wellness is often a difficult one. Faith talks about the power of “sharing your brokenness” with others as a way to find wholeness. The weight of worry is lightened knowing that you are not alone. We have the incredible honor of being with our patients and families and the opportunity to weather the journey through the highs and the lows. In times of distress, Mr. Rogers advised to "look for the helpers." We are the helpers. [00:01] Faith McDonald Shares Her Story With Us Faith talks about her experience as a parentDealing with her son’s mental health issues  Determining the trigger How she realized her son needed help [07:06] A Young Adult’s Mental Health Mental health issues on young adultsDealing with a young adult’s mental health issuesFrom a physician’s perspective We talk about privacy and how it factors into a young adult’s mental health The possible physical symptoms of a mental health issue Here are Faith’s suggestions for doctors to better serve their patients [17:31] “He's Going to Get Better” The questions that parents should expect from physicians We have a conversation about suicide Faith’s experience of dealing with her son’s paranoia The different kinds of support available for parents and their children Being comfortable with the uncomfortable The words that brought Faith hope The different types of therapy for young adults [27:37] Sharing Our Brokenness The benefits of exercise and meditation You should not be silent about your problemsFaith explains Parents asking permission to help their children Faith gives us a sneak peek about her book, “On the Loving End of Crazy”Sharing our brokenness[37:22] The Purpose of Suffering The impact of sharing her son’s story What Faith realized about helping her son with his mental health challenges The purpose of suffering according to Faith  [45:10] Closing Segment  Final takeaways:Parenting is hard regardless of the child’s ageThe connection between the mind and the bodyParents don't always think that their child could be thinking about suicideSafe talks and the Question-Persuade-Refer approach Parents working with partners in the mental health and school spaces Routine screening and why it’s important Balancing giving support and nurturing independence Caregivers need to take care of themselvesSharing brokenness is healingKey Quotes:“Our kids are paying attention in ways we don't maybe necessarily realize.” - Faith McDonald“We have to, as people functioning as a community of faith, be comfortable with sharing our brokenness.” - Faith McDonald“There's purpose in your suffering. For me, it's strengthened my faith, it's enlarged my compassion for people...” - Faith McDonaldEmail...

Fecha de Publicación: 28 de julio de 2021

Duración: 51 min