30 Who's the Boss: A Primer for Parents and Pediatric Providers

https://302.buzz/PM-WhatAreYourThoughtsDr. Arthur Lavin returns to the podcast and offers practical advice on parent-child conflict and problem solving strategies. Tantrums are a teaching opportunity where children learn to solve the problem and parents are the guides. Dr. Lavin shares highlights from his book “Who's the Boss: Moving Families from Conflict to Collaboration” that he authored with colleague Susan Glaser and presents a framework to tackle tantrums and meltdowns Let’s listen to this primer for parents and pediatric providers from Dr. Lavin![00:01 - 03:57] Opening SegmentLet’s welcome back, Dr. Arthur LavinLet’s all be cautious for a few more monthsListen to Arthur’s message [03:58 - 14:09] Teaching Children to Solve Problems How Arthur turned a 12-year collab into a bookHe did it with his colleague Teaching children to solve their problems Why Arthur likes “neutral questions”[14:10 - 24:04] Like A Computer Freezing Understand tantrums better with this analogy How to handle tantrums betterArthur talks about anger flares among adults [24:05 - 35:40] The Line of Concern The alternative to listening and problem solving Arthur shares a sneak peek about his next bookListen to his message to his resident self[35:41 - 41:38] Closing SegmentFinals takeawaysTeach children to solve problems themselves Who will find the solution, the parent or the child?Adopting a neutral toneStructuring conversations betterThe approach with 100% success rate Children create the consequences, aside from solutions Tantrums are like computers freezing Teen tantrums are more complicated  Tweetable Quotes:“The secret to success always lies in finding some way to create a situation or an understanding or a stance freely whereas the child [has] the freedom and the ingenuity and the creativity to solve that problem themselves .” - Dr. Arthur Lavin“Listen to that voice, stay close to that voice, and stay true to that voice.” - Dr. Arthur LavinResources Mentioned:Pediatric Meltdown episode 9: School Struggles ADHD or is it‪?‬Arthur’s booksWho's the BossBaby and Toddler Sleep Solutions For DummiesEmail [email protected] to connect with Arthur and visit https://www.advancedped.com/staff/ to learn more about his space. If you’d like to connect with me, you can find me at LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter or email me at [email protected]. To learn more about me visit <a href="https://www.medicalbhs.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

Fecha de Publicación: 31 de marzo de 2021

Duración: 41 min